So ever since i went to the "explorer" part of the scouts which is 14-18 yrs old, I fell in love with one the girls there. Our explorer group is a really close group where everyone knows everyone, I became friends with everyone there. But the girl is the sister of one of my good friends, who has also said in the past "if you date one of my sisters we are not friends anymore" and I do kind of understand it (I am an only child). And I don't know if things would get too akward if I told those people to the point where we would lose contact, which is the last thing i would want. Because losing that entire friend group would be devestating for me. I thought about maybe only telling her but I am 65% sure she doesn't like me back (in a loving way because I am certain she likes me as a person) and if she doesn't like me back then it might get really akward. and I don't know for sure if she would tell the people around her about it, but on the other half i have these positives: i will know if she likes me back and if she likes me back it will be the happiest moment of my (still not so long) life and when I tell her I have that secret off my shoulders.
PHEW ngl this is already kind of a way for me to vent it out.
So the final question rings: "should I tell her I love her yes or no?"
I really hope I can get some tips about my situation and a big thank you for reading all this way! Have a nice day!
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