I (20M) am unsure how to proceed with a girl after she cancelled (20F)

So a couple weeks ago I matched with a girl on tinder. I felt like we really hit it off and I ended up getting her number. Last week I asked if she wanted to meet up and get something to eat over the weekend. She agreed, but then remembered she had work and wasn't available all weekend. I asked her what her schedule looked like for next week (i.e. this week), and she told me she would let me know by Monday.

Now at this point I'm thinking she's pulling the "never available" move, which kinda sucked because I was starting to like her but I figured I'd let it play out. Over the weekend she and I continued to text (sometimes initiated by her and sometimes by me) and we ended up giving each other our snapchats. So now I'm feeling better about it and thinking maybe she really was just busy. Monday rolls around and I don't hear a peep from her. On the one hand I want to hit her up and see if she is free at all this week, but on the other hand I don't want to come off as creepy or desperate if she is trying to drop me. Any advice from the internet?

Tldr: made plans with a girl, she cancelled for work and told me she'd let me know when she's free, never did but still carried on conversation.

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