Here's a link to my last post for a bit more context! link to my last post
Hey guys, an update on my situation!
So she did end up texting back after a few days and apologized, she asked for my whatsapp instead cause she keeps forgetting to check her text messages!
We ended up going to a park near ny place yesterday and it was really nice, she was happy to be able to take a break from her hectic school life and relax in the sun.
Chemistry and everything still felt great, and I am pretty charmed by her.
Unfortunately though, on my way back to my apartment to get more beer and chill on my rooftop, I ran into my flatmate who was rushing to get groceries, and she(my date) remembered that the next day (today) is a bank holiday here in Germany and she hadn't done her groceries yet! This was really unfortunate cause we were both looking forward to drinking more and talking more, so the day I was looking forward to for a couple weeks was sadly cut short.
I decided to walk her back to the station, but not before sneakily showing of my singing skills in my apartment's stairwell haha,
We had more jokes and talked on the way back but I didn't really see the opportunity or the right moment to kiss her before she got on the train, cause the train arrived quite abruptly and we ended up just hugging instead and said that let's do this again sometime!
I might be over thinking but I was pretty taken aback by the change in plans to even consider making a move to kiss her, I was more concerned about her making it back in time for her groceries cause I wouldn't want her to starve or anything!
Our time in that park, sitting in the sunlight was really nice, and I'm a bit sad as in the coming weeks I wont be able to see her because I have a lot of things I need to submit for my finals, and so does she.
I now need to ask, was it okay that I didnt go for any kisses this time?
During the date she did once say while smiling that I should be more honest about my feelings, and should say what I feel.
And although I didnt exactly want to tell her what I felt in that moment, I do feel like asking to meet her one last time this thursday before I get swamped by my requirements! Because, well, I didnt get to spend the time I wanted to and I just, really want to see her again! đ
Do you guys think this is okay? I'm sorry if the answer might be obvious to some people but I'm pretty new to how dating works here in Germany đ or in the west in general đ
To summarize my questions: 1.) Is it okay that I didn't kiss her this time? (Technically 1st time we were out alone together)
2.) Is it okay to ask her out again in the coming days for next thursday? (Even though we just went out yesterday)
Thanks!
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