For the past 4 weeks I have been going on dates with a guy I met in a grocery store in March. At first i was a little skeptical because he’s a tad bit older but not by much. On our first date we met up at Dairy Queen. We talked for three hours , he did majority of the talking. He asked me out for a second date a few days later and the second date he cooked and made cookies for us at his house we cuddled and watched movies.
We had a 3rd date and we ended up having sex. Ever since the third date he’s been initiating the dates himself. That’s when the questions started
When i come over he will ask me “why didn’t you give me a hug when you came in?” So i started giving him hugs
“Why don’t you bring a second pair of clothes over so you can spend the night?” I started spending the night
Can you come get comfortable with me?” “Do you want me to do this or that?”
“Can you come over?” And if i say “I’m busy today he’ll ask can he come pick me up if I’m tired “Do you miss me?” he asks me questions non stop and idk if I’m not being physically reassuring enough for him
The other day when i came over he was on the game playing COD with his friends and he asked me “do you want me to get off that game?”
And I said “no I’m fine you can finish playing ” We were laying in bed last week and he asked me “what did you do today?” And i said “i went downtown” and he said “who’s downtown? Your boo”? I looked at him with a weird look and he said “i mean if you do have others your talking to i can’t get mad”
That’s when i said “i was downtown with my best friend we just went to the new deli we didn’t do much”
A week ago i texted him that morning and he hasn’t said a word to me or responded. He constantly told me that i was playing games or played with him and i don’t understand how
TL:DR; he won’t let things happen naturally and let me be myself as far as getting to know him. He asks me questions that i think are crasy because of how much attention i show him
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