I (27M) can never find someone my age to date. I can either date way younger or older and it causes problems.

Whenever I’m on dating apps if I set the age to my age I swipe out of people in 2 seconds but I put it up or lower it’s non stop swiping. Or in public I never see women my age to interact with or ask out.

If I date women that are quite younger than me (21 or younger) it feels like a different generation and there is like a complete disconnect.

If I date women that are older (31 or older) it feels like they are single for a big reason. Mental illness, no career, 4 kids single mom, not a nice person, alcoholic, etc.

Plus, whenever I visit friends in different states I have no problem getting numbers or having women wanting to date me. Meanwhile, in my hometown it’s like a ghost town. Even if I’m literally searching for them I can’t find them. I don’t understand what the problem is.

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