So I've always been kind of stuck in the "guys should always make the first move and if he doesn't he isn't worth it" mindset and I've been trying to get out of it and put myself out there. I finally get how guys feel! I've had guys hit on me or ask for my number in all sorts of situations and I admire their confidence and I decided I would make a similar move today. I was out having dinner with my girls today I was all dressed up and this cute guy was with his dad and he kept looking at me from across the room, well I guess I misinterpreted it because I asked my friend if I should ask for his number and she dared me to do it.. So we finished up around the same time got our checks and I walked up to his table as we were leaving and asked for his number, well his reaction was super weird and he said "uhm no thank you" and then his dad tried to chat me up and get me to stay but it was awkward so I left. Anyways that's the boldest thing I've ever done and now I feel like it was too much, or like maybe I should just let guys approach me. I've asked for guys numbers before but never a stranger. Anyways it feels good to at least try and make a move and I don't regret it because you never know what can happen.
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