I [M23] am interested in this girl. Been a friend for a while, she dated a friend of mine for 2 years (ended last year), and we’ve never really been very close or flirty. I know flirting is a huge part of the process of seducing a girl. Except I haven’t done that since when I was 15. This relationship ended quite awkwardly, I was being distant and I wouldn’t text or call unless necessary. Yeah I messed up. I have tried seducing a few girls over the years but either they were not interested or I lost interest before it could happen. Now, I literally have no game, except when I am joking. I can be really flirty when I am not being serious, but as soon as I get interested in a girl, I start loosing all abilities to maintain a conversation, make her laugh and I overall have no self confidence anymore and end up being awkward. + I loose interest quite rapidly when I feel like the person is not interested BUT I also realized that I am absolutely oblivious to any kind of signs… Worst part about it all is, people think I am a Don Juan while I haven’t kissed a girl in 8 years..
Help, I really don’t know where to start.
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