my favourite foods are tasting stale. idk what to do
i was with a guy when i was 16 and we were together for a year (till 17) and during this time i had a bestfriend and we’d been bestfriend for 5-6 years and then drifted (distanced myself from her) for the past year and a half she’s been reaching out to me and it’s been about her wanting to apologize to me etc as she was very toxic to me. Now that we’re on speaking terms and i’ve forgiven her for everything long ago … she sprung it in her that she’s w my ex ??
i just don’t feel like it’s genuine of her to reach out to me and to have acted like a friend for months only to tell me thst she’s ENGAGED with my ex, it would be fine had like it been with anyone else but she specifically had asked me how i moved on etc whilst we were reconciling and i gave her a whole thank you lecture for being there for me (the relationship caused my parents to lose trust me in me, i was sent away to my grandparents bc of it, and the break up was not by choice) and it’s caused me a lot of … trauma.
anyways i’m devastated to be honest… i know it’s ridiculous but i think he deserves so much and for him to have done all of this and at the end tell me the good news and even asked me to be her maid of honour as her “oldest friend” … i’m just sad that i let her back into my life, i don’t know how to stop letting it get to me and it’s affecting my current relationship – i don’t know what to do / this is friendship advice / dating advice – thank you !!
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