I’ve been friends with a coworker for about a year now. In February he asked me out and we went out a few times. Then quarantine happened. We didn’t go to work for a couple of months and because of quarantine we hadn’t seen each other in person. However we texted and Snapchatted during these two months. I want to add that 9/10 times I would initiate the conversation. Quarantine here has loosened and we both went back to work. I’ve seen him at work a couple of times but we haven’t talked. It’s like he’s avoiding me? I also had a rough week due to personal reasons and I didn’t initiate conversation with him. It wasn’t until about a week of us being back at work that he finally snapchatted me. I was feeling a little sad that he hadn’t talked to me so I was excited to see he snapped me. I responded to the snapchat and then he left me on read. It’s been 2 days now. I’m just confused and frustrated. I want to reach out to him and ask him what’s up. But I’m tired of chasing after uninterested guys and wasting all this time. If he cares or is interested he’ll reach out to me right?
I’m bi so I’ve dated some women in the past and the women I’ve dated are so good about communicating and letting me know where we stand. I’ve also never been ghosted by a women. (Not to say it doesn’t happen, I’ve just had better luck dating women). Maybe it’s because I’m a woman that I better understand women. Maybe I’ll just go back to dating women because men are just too wishy washy.
TLDR men are confusing
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