I feel like I initiate things more than the person I’m interested in

I’m (F,22) feel like I’m someone who wants to make plans to do something when it comes to first meeting someone or just in general when dating. It’s nice to know they’re interested & it’s kind of nice when someone takes control & direction. Like “Hey, would you like to meet this weekend on either Sat or Sun? I’ve got something in mind we could do, we could go for a walk along the coast, the views are great & there’s an ice-cream spot too, otherwise (if you’re free) do you have anything in particular you’d like to do?” Or “Hey, let me know when you’re next free? I’ve got no plans next Saturday & would love to take you for dinner, there’s this great place that I hope you’d like, it’s not really busy, let me know if this is your kind of thing or if you’d like to do something else?”

I have anxiety & social anxiety so I kind of like to know a heads up of the setting, if it’s busy, loud, quiet, can maybe check the menu out.

Anyone else feel like they initiate things more than the other person? There’s easy going & there’s also lazy!