I feel like we never do what I want to do

I feel like this last 9 months has been all about him. His obsessive hobby. His video games. His everything. We never watch movies together. He literally plays video games until it’s bed time, gets into bed, and falls asleep. I’ve voiced SEVERAL times before that I don’t appreciate it. All I want to do is be normal and watch a movie together. Not when he tells me to put a movie on at 11pm just for him to fall asleep. I’ve said I wanted to watch The Notebook for months now. The one time he went to go put it on it was 11 and he was already complaining how time he was, so I said forget it. He went to go do it again a few nights ago at 11pm just to fall asleep a few minutes later. Like you would THINK that it would click in his head to set aside time from his busy busy day and night of video games to just put something on that id like to watch with him. I understand it’s not the “ideal” movie a guy wants to watch… but I literally don’t ask for much. Even if it’s any movie where he doesn’t fall asleep. This is probably silly to vent about but it’s been bugging me.