TLDR: I (23 M) had my 1st date with a girl (22 F), but I’m afraid to get so much close to her in a short time and I don’t want to miss my chance either! What should I do?
A little background of me (23 M) and she (22 F)… I know she about 4 years more / less, because she studies on the same university and we are doing the last year project together in the graduation… As a result we got so much close! I know that she has a crush on me since the first year, but I started to pay more attention on this year! She has a lot of interest in common!
So I had an idea of making some “virtual happy hour” with my group that is making that project, which consists of she (we can call her “S”) and my friend (we can call him “B”). The objective of this is because I just wanted to stop talking about the university and our jobs! I just wanted to know each one better and of course to have a lot of a fun.
On that day (previous friday), we would have that “virtual happy hour”, but it turned into a online date, because my friend B, unfortunately got sick, and then he just dropped out. So it was just only me and her, and then I had the chance to talk to her alone and finally invite to a virtual date in that same day. She accepted and we had so much fun! We played some online board games, since we are in quarantine in our country, but that didn’t stop us to laugh and flirt so much.
Ok… That was so cool and perfect… But here comes the problem… That was my 1st date of my life and it was totally online… I don’t have any prior experience with dating… I think I should have texted to she on the next day (previous saturday), but I didn’t… Because why I was so nervous… I have fear to get so much close to her in a little time! What should I do? Also… I don’t want to lose my chance! I always had a good time chatting with her with some group of friends… And then that 1st date was my 1st time to talk to her alone! I just want to have a good time with her again! I just don’t know how to talk with / invite her again!
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