I have to tell you, I’m at the point in my dating career/marriage pursuance that where I would rather just lose my virginity and call it quits.

It has become too much of an emotional hassle for me to date. I get myself all worked up over one person, I think there's a lot of potential with them, we date a couple times, but then everything fizzles out.

If we have truly reached the point where dating and marriage has lost its authenticity and its excitement, then I would much rather just have sex to get it over with and move on. I still have a life to live.