Someone who actually gives a shit. They care about you as much as you care about them. They aren’t afraid of being public with you, they don’t look at every other girl and make comments about their bodies. They don’t take complete advantage of you. They don’t call you whipped if you do something nice like make breakfast. It’s not all about sex, you have nights where you just talk for hours and hours. Were I don’t feel used. I’m not made to feel like a dumb ass when I have feelings. Someone who supports me, who talks me through bad times. I want to be treated how I treat them. I hate one sided relationships. Someone who just loves me and will say it, not once a month when I’m not in the mood to have sex and they use that as their tactic so you let your guard down. I know they exist, I just don’t know how to find someone like that. It feels like something just in books or for other people. Gorgeous people, who have great jobs, a big house and nice cars. Not all around average…
I go for the assholes because that’s the kind of men I grew up around. My uncles, dad who left when I was a week old, everyone. That’s what I think I deserve. Hell, if a guy acted the way I hope for one day- I’d probably run for the hills because I’d think they had ulterior motives. I fucking hate it. Is there anyone that’s had a really awful dating history and found their soulmate out there? To give me a little hope?
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