I met a guy (19M) on vacation last summer. We only hung out for an hour and then we exchanged snaps. I expected nothing to come from this because he lives thousands of miles from me. Also because he is in college. I'm a junior in high school (17F).
He started hitting on me right off the bat and I didn't mind it. I thought he was cute and funny. But as things went on we started opening up to each other more and more. Months go by and he even became my pin pal.
I wanted to be more and assumed that we were on the way to be. I told him how I felt and I was really hoping he would feel the same. I told him this partly because I didn't know if I should be closed off to other men. He told me, "I really want to meet you again before I can decide if I really like you that way."
It doesn't make since to me. I really thought he was committed to me. I was hoping to meet up with him this summer but idk the way everything is going.
He started being more distant since quarantine happened. I showed him my body in hopes that it would lure him back to me. It did but not the way I hoped it would. After a day of not texting me he messages me one day. "Hey, I know it's been a while, but I'm really horny rn."
This made me so angry. I left him on read and didn't talk to him the next 2 days. Then he apologized. A few days later he messages. " I'm sorry for the way I'm treating you, but you do not deserve this."
He was talking about not messaging me as much. Which I gave him a lot of slack because I heard most colleges are slamming their students with a heavy load of work. Every time he told me something a long this line I would tell him it's okay and I appreciate that he's trying to reach out to me.
What frustrates me though is that sometimes he would leave me on read. I also would see him online and he'll not talk to me. I don't expect him to have a full conversation with me everytime he has free time, but I'll really appreciate a good morning every once and awhile.
He went from talking to me everyday and saying all these sweet things to this. I think I'm pushing him away some how and idk if it's because I'm being clingy. Also one time I was having a full panic attack while face timing and then he was like, "I really need to leave."
A few days ago we had a pleasant time face timing and I thought everything was going back to normal. Today he has been ignoring me. Idk if I need to throw in a towel or what. I just feel like I wasted so much time on something not realistic. What are your guys thoughts??
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