So i'm engaged. been with my partner for 3 years. he's a good person and caring
We definitely love each other. well i guess he does.
the prob is he works double shifts he's always working and busy. no time for us. even no texting only good morning and good night.
his neglect is driving me crazy feeling less important to him. always feeling he doesn't care at all because i told him many times that he's hurting me and leaving me feeling lonely all the time.
i'm always sitting there like an idiot waiting for him to show some care, to text me, to call me but i'm left with disappointment.
I only see him on Sundays. his only day off.
I tried to break up with him just to scare him that the situation is real. his answer is always you don't understand me you need to understand my job and responsabilities i'm not happy i'm tired but what can I do. I love you I don't wanna lose you.
He sometimes promise me to give more attention and times but he always fails when it comes to actions.
Idk what to do anymore. I tried to ghost him never reply to his good morning and text but nothing. He continues his work and at night he sends me don't be sad it's just im overload with work.
With this quarantine i lost my job. no job no money and he's away all the time. Im getting depressed. I have nothing to do. empty time. no friends
we were supposed to get married on December this year but due to the economic crisis and lockdown we still didn't finish anything for the house. everythjng is more expensive now and dollar currency is killing our currency. i think we will postpone it which means it will get more worse in our relationship.
I can't break up with him for real. I only have him in my life and I know he loves me and accept me.
I'm confused I don't know if i'm falling out of love because his neglect
I don't know what to do.
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