So I’m not sure this is the right place to post but I am feeling very insecure and anxious about dating for a specific reason. I’ve always found myself upset with the idea of my partners watching porn if we were dating (I’m a straight woman) and I’d always provide them with lots of videos/pictures and I have a high sex drive. I do watch porn myself when I’m single but when I’m in a relationship I solely focus on my partner so I guess that’s why I start feeling bad if they watch it. I think maybe if they rarely did I could be okay but I’m not sure because in the past I’ve felt super awful thinking about that even happening. My issue is my ex never watched porn because of his own desire to not but he was very toxic and bad in other ways and I held onto him because of the fear that no one else would have that quality and he told me other men wouldn’t. he broke up with me anyways. I guess I’m just looking for advice on if I’ll be okay with dating or if other men will work with me if I bring this up? Or how to fix my anxiety over this? Or some type of reason? Thanks!
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