So there was this girl I met in school late last year and we got talking.. For like 3 months, we got closer and was meeting everyday, talking for like hours..wait for each other after classes to walk.. We shared intimate details and stuffs.. I was already planning to ask her out when the semester is over.. Then she suddenly drops the bomb that she has a boyfriend already.. I was shocked..like why would she lead me on for so long (more than 4 months) if she already had someone.. I let her know of my feelings and intentions after that and she said she thought it was just friendship..
After this, she still continued relating with me as if nothing happened.. we chatted daily.. Morning, afternoon, night.. and she was saying endearing things like she thinks about me and that she misses me.. Tells me about important details in her life and asks for my opinion.. I was feeling played at that point and I felt I needed a break from her.. So I told her yesterday that we needed to stop communicating.. And all she said was "okay, I'll miss you".. And I was like is that all.. she then said she's not the one with words and that she's sorry things didn't go my way.. I don't know which one hurts more, the fact that she never gave a damn about me or that I feel used.. And I was left blaming myself for thinking she was interested in me too.. I don't even know how to be just friends with her..
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