Think I screwed myself over!!
This is one of many posts regarding this guy (27m) I (28f) met online and looks like it’ll be the last. His communication has really dwindled…to the point where he asked me out and when I sent a message to confirm plans a few days later he didn’t even bother replying. It’s becoming a pattern where he has no follow through on plans and I’m doing all the heavy lifting. We also haven’t really met / called much during the two months we’ve been talking so I pretty much accepted it’s end on Friday.
I wished him all the best and he replied within minutes (compared to his usual 3 day average). He came up with some excuse which I believed and I basically laid out my cards…I said i like him and I was interested in getting to know him more but he hasn’t really put in action to have calls or meet up etc. I ended the message saying that if I didn’t hear from him within a week I’ll assume we’re going separate ways. I don’t know if this was the best move but I’m so tired of doing all the work for someone I don’t even know has the same interest level as me.
Anyway…I think I’ve realised that he has kept me as an option and I’ve given him the easiest out…a week long ghost and he can walk away unscathed. I’m feeling pretty shit and I’m wishing I just ended it, instead of anxiously waiting for a message that won’t come for a week. Think I was blinded by really liking him!
Should I just wait out the week?
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