I thought he was interested [27M] he ghosted me

For the past 4 weeks I have been going on dates with a guy I met in a grocery store in March. At first i was a little skeptical because he’s a tad bit older but not by much. On our first date we met up and got ice cream.

We talked for three hours , he did majority of the talking. He’s very out going. He asked me out for a second date a few days later and the second date he cooked and made cookies for us at his house we cuddled and watched movies. We had a 3rd date and we ended up having sex. Ever since the third date we’ve been getting close. He started texting me “Goodmorning “ everyday. He wanted me to spend the whole day with him and start staying over regularly .

When i come over he will ask me insecure type questions: “why didn’t you give me a hug when you came in?” “Why don’t you bring a second pair of clothes over so you can spend the night?” “Can you come get comfortable with me?” “Do you want me to do this or that?” “Can you come over?” And if i say “I’m busy today he’ll ask can he come pick me up if I’m tired “Do you miss me?” he asks me questions non stop and idk if I’m not being physically reassuring enough for him or just maybe he needs ton of reassurance

The other day when i came over he was on the game playing COD with his friends and he asked me “do you want me to get off that game?”

And I said “no I’m fine you can finish playing

We were laying in bed last Sunday. and he asked me “what did you do today?” And i said “i went downtown” and he said “who’s downtown? Your boo”?

I looked at him with a weird look and he said “i mean if you do have others your talking to i can’t get mad” and i said “no i went downtown to run errands with my best friend but that was about it”

After that conversation we cuddled and had sex and the next morning i left for work like i normally do and that’s the last time i heard from him

I texted him last week and called him and he’s been posting on his social media but he’s reading my text and not replying

TL:DR; he won’t let things happen naturally and let me be myself as far as getting to know him. He is currently ghosting me after i assumed he was interested

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