I was recently GHOSTED ? by a girl I met on Tinder (1.5 months of talking)

Hey everyone! This is my first post here! So, I matched with a girl from Tinder in the middle of March during all this Covid-19 crazy stuff. We hit it off pretty well and talked for about a week before exchanging #’s. She told me that she was looking for a connection with someone that would turn into a relationship, which is what I honestly wanted too. So from there we texted all day every day for a month and a half! I usually don’t like texting every day, but I figured I would just follow the vibe and stick to the texting pattern we developed.

Our conversations were always so entertaining and fun. I enjoyed talking about our interests and just joking around. Unfortunately, we did not meet up due to her working in a hospital and being around patients with possible covid. We did agree to take a risk to meet up but she worked a different shift every day, which was whatever because I mean not many people were hanging out anyway due to this virus. But anyway… this girl seemed really sweet and really insightful.

So less than a week ago there were 2 days in a row where she answered me later in the afternoon (She never answered me the same time the next day because of her work/sleep schedule) which was later than normal and both conversations were quick compared to the many other times we’ve talked where the conversation lasted all day. The 3rd day after those 2 days of tapering me off she ghosted me and haven’t talked for 4-5 days.

So as I reflected (still am reflecting on this) I couldn’t put my finger on why she may have ghosted me because we had normal conversations and would of course flirt here and there. Only thing I could think of is that I may have driven her away by texting her every day all day. Like I said I was just going with the vibe and following the texting pattern we had going.

***I SHOULD ALSO MENTION THAT SHE GOT OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP THE END OF 2019

So I figured 1 of 3 things happened: 1. She got bored of me/became uninterested 2. She found someone else on Tinder or somewhere else that she liked more 3. Got back with her ex

Is it possible that she may come back and text me? Yes. Will I give her the time of day? Hmmm good question….

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