i’m (19f) having a hard time putting myself out there as i’m recently single and just afraid of being hurt again. i know it sounds crazy… i really want the next guy i meet to be my husband. i don’t like dating, i don’t like getting to know someone from scratch after breaking up with someone who i thought the world of, i don’t like the idea of giving myself to someone who’s not fully giving themselves to me – which is often the case with guys who don’t have the intention of being serious. i feel so awkward bringing it up with guys i talk to like – hey i’m looking for something long term and serious” why does that scare people ? lol even reading it myself it feels so heavy to say but why?? when did union-ship stop being seen as beautiful
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