If someone only wants to sleep with you and not date you, take it as a win, celebrate and move on

It’s almost impossible to convert someone from “not looking for a relationship” to “wants to date you” through sex. It doesn’t work that way. You can try, but it may end up in heartbreak and tears.

Instead, take the consolation prize – (s)he finds you attractive! It’s a win and you’ve cut your losses. Look into the mirror and tell yourself, “I’m wanted, but I’m not going to settle for anything else than what I want.”

Take that ego boost and channel it into confidence that you WILL find someone who wants to sleep with and date you.

Writing this down because I can definitely use this advice right now. Cheers!