If you think ghosting someone is okay- you have to work on your emotional maturity.

I’m tired of being told that no one deserves explanations as to why someone stopped speaking to them.

I’m sick of guys defending other guys who do this because “no one owe you anything” like, okay? That might be true but for someone to take the time out of their life to look for you, arrange dates, be physically intimate and vocalize their interest just to disappear seems to fit the bill of a bond. A bond that abruptly ends, to the ghosted, doesn’t need to be explained because they feel entitled to not own anyone anything.

This perpetuates trust issues so deep to recover from, in both men and women.

So if you think it’s cool to just cut someone off because they did something you didn’t like- you will continue to run from real relationships issues instead of learning to communicate and make things work.