Seriously, it's like every other post someone complains about either A) not getting matches, B) getting "ghosted" or just not talked to or C) getting rejected. I mean, what did you think it was going to be? That you would get the first best match and got a date of it instantly?
The worst part is that a lot of these guys (and they are mostly guys) feel so bad because either A, B, or C happens to them. The truth is, if you can't deal with one of these things happening to you I can't stress enough that y'all are nowhere near ready to go online dating. If you get hurt by the sheer statistics of an app, it might not be the world that's a problem, but you.
I think a lot of it boils down to expecting so much out of Tinder while in reality you really shouldn't. Tinder, and by extension most dating apps, is very rarely a good place to find a healthy relationship quickly. So unless you have the confidence to not be scathed by A, B, or C happening go find love somewhere else and stop complaining about these apps for what they are…
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