My female friends are the type that frequently get busy and stop texting and communicating altogether for weeks or over a month sometimes. One in particular does that a lot and she really confuses me with it sometimes. I never really know sometimes if she actually got busy or if she just got bored with talking to me. Sometimes she’ll stop texting mid convo and then kinda ghost me for weeks until she shows back up out of the blue at some point. That kind of thing makes me wonder if she stopped chatting and took a break because I crossed a line and seemed a little clingy or something. I’ve asked her if I text too much, if I should stop texting her, have tried probing to see what’s going on exactly. She always says that she really values our friendship, that I’m not doing anything wrong at all, and makes it sound like I’m overthinking everything and she just really doesn’t like to text. But sometimes the way she disappears it’s just hard to believe. It really confuses the hell out of me. Right now I feel like she wouldn’t tell me if she actually felt like I was coming off too clingy or something. I really feel like I’m missing something.
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