I’m almost 25 and I’m still a virgin because I have an irrational fear of being a single mother. Am I paranoid?

I’ve always been rather commitment phobic. I also have pretty high standards. I think I’m decent looking..

I’ve dated some quite attractive, intelligent, and driven guys but wasn’t particularly attracted to them enough to give up my virginity. I’ve always had a thing for older guy.

Some of my female friends are perfectly fine with having casual sex and I’m still terrified!

I turn 24 next week and feel like I’m missing out on what are supposed to be the happiest years of my life.