I’m going on dates with some pretty good guys, but I still can’t get over my colleague/boss who I can’t help but feel is the love of my life..

Is it simply because I don’t know these guys I’m dating as well? I fell head over heels for my coworker but Covid has made it impossible to ever see him in person, I screwed him over by asking for two weeks off right before lockdown and I’m still not 100% sure he’s forgiven me, and he’s married (and just bought a house).

He’s always been really nice but his attitude has changed since lockdown. I can’t tell whether or not it’s personal. Yesterday I talked to him in person for the first time since March and he just looked down a lot (could barely make eye contact). This has never happened before.

Anyway, I’m using a dating app to meet guys and I just can’t help but compare them to him. I used to sense that he liked me (now obviously not). I know he’s married but I’ve been secretly crushing on him for nearly a year and it’s destroying me.

Some of these guys I’ve met up with are more attractive than him, are obviously interested in me, successful, and are maybe even better than him…

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