Im a 27 male of average looks. I wen’t through a toxic ans abusive breakup 8 months ago and want to get out there but I find just getting out there is hard.
I been on tinder getting some matches but it leads to nowhere. I get numbers or social media contacts with the promise to meet up just to be another guy on their “maybe list”. I got ghosted an hour before my date with someone after confirming throughout the week and the day of the date.
Alot of these girls have 100s of dudes talking to them. They also seem to like posting stuff for likes and comments but will ignore you or ghost you when you truly want to take them out. Dating is hard for the average man. Some girls just go on dating sites to promote their social media to feed their narcissism with no intention of meeting up.
I’m jelous of those who go on dates 2-3 times a week. I probably get a date once every 3 months.
The only silver lining is that i almost always get follow up dates and the girls tell me how im a great date.
submitted by /u/trojan933
[link] [comments]
