I’m no one’s dream girl

I’m 20 and no guy has ever been interested in me. I’m a virgin whose never kissed someone. People tell me I’m pretty but I guess it’s for pity because no one wants me. Idk I just feel so bad about myself. I fear no guy will ever like me because I’m skinny, I have self harm scars on my arm and thigh, and I’m black (I look kinda like yara shahidi if she were left in the womb a bit too long or an ugly version Aaliyah or Alicia Keys). I don’t have a problem with being black I just know the coveted type of girls I’m my area are the blonde, white girl next door. I feel like no matter how much I click with a guy I’ll never compare to those girls and I don’t blame them. People have their preferences and I can’t change that. Everyone deserves to be with their dream girl/boy. I just feel like I’m no one’s dream girl.