hey everyone! ive never posted before, but i really need advice on this and im not entirely comfortable with asking people i know personally.
i'm a virgin and now that i have a boyfriend, i feel like i should be ready for sex. the thing is, i'm still really scared and something inside me is telling me not yet. we came really close recently and he asked if i wanted to try and i declined. he was fine with it, but the guilt has been getting to me. after i had rejected giving it a try, i felt like crying. he isnt pressuring me into anything or guilt tripping me at all. he even said that me not being ready yet is no big deal and thats just how it is going to be until i am ready.
i'm 18 and most of my friends have already had sex, so why do i feel so scared? is there something wrong with me? id really appreciate it if i could get some responses :c i feel really abnormal and weird for being so scared.
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