Men, how do you know you don’t want to take a girl seriously?
Type of guys I date/ who ask me out – well-educated – came from good families – athletic – can carry a conversation – good hygiene – into hiphop music
Obviously, they’re decent boys. Almost all of them have been in a serious relationship before. On our first date, everything goes smoothly. They’re kind. Nice. They tell me about their long term goals, dreams.
And then one thing leads to another and I realize they only want to fuck meeEeEe 🙁 Worst thing is they get into serious relationships after 🙁
Can you guys tell me how to give off a I’m-dating-for-the-long term vibe?? How do I lessen my you-don’t-want-to-take-me-seriously vibe?
Seriously so sad because of this 🙁 It seems like I choose them for the qualities above and I can see myself in a relationship with them, but they choose me because I’m a girl you can “have fun with”
PS. We meet through taking classes together in uni. I don’t use dating apps. I’m not a party girl either. So why 🙁
Edit: Please don’t tell me to stop having sex on the first date. I’ve only done that once and that’s not the underlying problem here
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