I(M31) like a mutual friend (F32). She’s best friends with my roommate (M30). I would like to ask her out. Should I ask my roommate if something’s going on between them?

I have known Sylvia for over two years. I met her through my roommate who went to same undergrad uni as her. I am good friends with my roommate. However, they exchange gifts, console each other over breakups, know each other's family members. It almost seems as if they might be a couple although without any intimacy.

Now, I am an introverted guy, I never had such close friendship with any of my friends (men/women). So, I am not sure what to make out of this?

I really like this woman. Most of the times we three hang out together. But the few times I have spent time with her, I have found many things common between us.

Now, I would like to ask her out. But I don't know if I should talk to my roommate first? I am quite sure nothing going on between them. Also my roommate was dating Sylvia's sister last year. Didn't work out.

What should I do? Ask my roommate? Ask her directly?

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