I’m F20 and he is M21. I met him on Bumble and he wasn’t exactly my type but he seemed nice and kind. I messaged him and we decided to talk in person. I wasn’t crazy about him after we hung out and and talked but I didn’t want to be picky. He kissed me and he tasted like metal and I immediately hated him. But we made plans for a few days after and I felt it would be rude to cancel. He came and picked me up and immediately started feeling up on me and I made it clear I wasn’t comfortable. He said “whatever you want today is all about you, movies and dinner are on me.” He was taking me to this crab place I LOVE, so I was invested. We got there and he bought us champagne when I really didn’t want any. He insisted on me eating at the movies. Kept pressing me to forget the restaurant and just eat at the movies. He wouldn’t stop attempting to kiss me and touch all over my body but I kept rejecting him. So finally he got upset and he said he was getting more champagne AND GOT TWO MORE CUPS! Talked throughout the WHOLE movie I wanted to actually see. Then we left and said he was too drunk to drive cause he drank my glass that I didn’t want. Champagne total: 5 cups So I drove and as we pull in he’s like oh so your paying for dinner right. I had already parked and I said no, I don’t have money with me. He distinctly said I couldn’t bring my wallet all I had was Apple Pay. I just sighed and pulled out the parking lot and he screamed at me “ STOP MY FUCKING CAR AND WAIT” then punched the dashboard. I immediately drove off towards the nearest friends house. He starts insisting we can go to Mcdonald’s or Asian Wok or Taco Bell. He said Mcdonald’s sounds good let’s go there, you can order off the dollar menu. I’m a boujee bitch, I wanted crab not a chicken sandwich off the dollar menu. USUALLY I PAY MYSELF, but this one time I left my wallet at home. So the whole way he’s bugging me to stop driving and that he’s sorry. I pulled into the driveway of my friends house and got out and said have a good day. I walked away and he said no kiss and I ran INSIDE! He starts screaming and punching his car and saying FUCK. Then posted on his snapchat and said “ HOW DID I FUCK THAT UP” Then I sent him a message, he laughed at it and I blocked him and have avoided him ever since. It’s upsetting cause he gave me free five guys. I have sworn off dates for months and I’m terrified to talk to another guy again. I feel like nice guys don’t exist but also I should have never gone on that date.
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