So my bf (26M) and i (27F) broke up 5 months ago after 2ish year old committed relationship. Things were good. Many ups and downs but we get through it. We broke up twice before but he asked me back and to get married. So things get more serious afterwards. Then around December ‘19, he broke up with me because he said he wants to focus on his writing, his career, he wants to see whats outside like without me (as in, if he could get anyone better than me or he’s stuck with me).
Since then, we pretty much have hold and cold relationship. We didnt get back together but still have sex somehow, and did what couples did. Like either me or him will always find a way to each other. But he is always resisting to get back together bcs he still wants to be single. (And yes i know he talks and flirts so many girls out there too).
My question, what are we doing here? What is he doing with me? What should i do because tbh i also date around after breakup but i cant deny the strongest connection i have with him.
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