I read a thread recently where a guy was interested in a younger woman, and everyone was like "well don't make her feel like you're just with her because you want a younger woman. she needs to know you're actually interested in her as an individual."
Now I'm wondering if it works the other way too. If a younger woman tells an older man she has a thing for older men, is that flattering — like, because it confirms they are attracted — or would it make the guy feel objectified or unpleasant?
I'm talking to a guy who is 12 years older. Sometimes he seems a little insecure about being older and I want him to know I am attracted to him. To be honest, him being older is definitely part of why, because I have always found older men more attractive. But I don't want to put my foot in my mouth and make him feel like I'm using him or have a fetish for his age or something.
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