(Some context, I’m a dude) In the relationships I’ve been, I have a hard time feeling natural and like myself, and most conversation feels forced, yet I can’t figure out why. Yes, I do get nervous around girls unfortunately even if I’ve known them for a long time and we’re just friends, so I don’t understand why I can’t not feel nervous/have a natural feeling relationship, it’s very irritating. Some things that may contribute are; I don’t share many interests with people (I don’t care about what’s mainstream), I’m not very experienced so I’m not sure what to do or say in certain situations, I’m a BIG over-thinker and no one ever knows wtf I’m talking about when I speak about my life because I’m in several VERY niche communities.
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