I'm not even looking for anybody right now, but I have been thinking about the future. I know that when I'm attracted to a woman, sex is genuinely one of the last things I'm thinking of. I'm attracted to personalities more than anything and when I'm attracted to somebody it's not only because I think they are pretty but also because they look like somebody with a lot of character.
It's not that I have a very low libido, I know that I would be open and up for it with the right person, but I would really want to get to know them well first because I'd want to make an emotional connection first and foremost without all the superficial bs. When I've been on dating apps before I've swiped left on like 90% of women because although they may be 'typically' attractive, I just don't see the character. I'm not attracted to girls who are flaunting it, trying to be sexy in their profiles. I'm attracted to girls who have a much more low key look because I just identify more of a personality there and they seem more interesting.
Is this weird for a guy? I just feel like I'm not attracted to the women that the majority of men are attracted to.
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