I’ve been really good friends with this guy since middle school. At one point in time I had a huge crush on him but he turned me down saying he doesn’t want to ruin our friendship. Since then nothing changed and we remained really good friends and I accepted that if just being friends meant he would still be in my life that it was okay and I was happy about it. This guy literally knows EVERYTHING about me and I tell him everything and he does the same (my relations w. Other guys, the things that make me upset, advice etc). Years later, about two weeks ago he suggested that we date each other, at first it was a hard no and I didn’t want to do it, but then I thought about it and I figured most people would want the qualities of their best friend to be the way their partner is in a relationship so I said that we could try it out and see how things go… with that being said he’s an amazing person and I know he’d treat me right in a relationship but I’m having a hard time transitioning from best friend to dating because I don’t feel the way I once did about him but he truly is my go to person for a lot of things and he’s always there, I just don’t know what to do at this point.
I also feel like since this all happened in quarantine that we are both bored and confused about what we want and our feelings and that it’s probably not the right time to jump into anything
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