Everytime I ask for advice on how to get girls to like me, I'm told I gotta pay.
Im told over and over and over, "no girl will ever like you unless you give them money"
Look at my posts asking for advice, and all I see is ppl literally half the comments, "hire a escort"
The last 2 girls I met, one was 18 and she just talked about how she didnt have to work (ironically met her at work) cause she hustled lonely guys from online, I noticed she always when hanging out, expecting me to buy food all that stuff and would kinda get mad at me if I decided not to. As if its my job to do that? Than shed make fun of me, call me names when I didnt do what she wanted, all that.
I met another girl who took me for a spin, (also around the same age) and had a boyfreind who she fooled and was cheating on him with SEVERAL men, including me, I am a virgin, but she still kissed me on the cheek she was cute to, but same thing shed use me, use me, and abuse me.
Ive recieved "advice" saying I just gotta pay, thats what I'm suppossed to do, be a walking money machine for these girls. Half the time I just wamt freinds tbh, but than I get advice saying "if a girl is ur friend, and shes not having sex with you, shes using you"
I just really dont get whats going on here…. Im trying so hard to just understand what's going on and its just making me sad.
I get told its about personality, its about love, but all women ever do to me is screw me over, or pretend to like me while having sex with other guys. Than expecting me to bail them out of any financial problem (ive payed girls rents, girls who made more money than me.) I just dont get why I see these other guys and they are having sex and going on dates and never paying girls just for that.
Why is that what I have to do to get a girl to like me?
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