F(26) meet this dude M(31) back in February on Tinder and we hit it off very well. Our morals and values seemed to align. He would send texts to check in on me and call me a lot. Since quarantine, things have changed. He said he wants to slow things down and felt like the “relationship” was evolving backwards. (We can’t go on dates and he didn’t want to rush anything prematurely) All he does is play video games and goes to see his brother. He insists that he really likes me, is very interested and LOVES the time we spend together. When it comes to hanging out, I feel like I’m always mentioning it first. He doesn’t really hit me up first anymore, but always answers when I text or call him. One day, I asked him to come over and give me a hand with something and without asking any questions about the task he told me he would be there. Just on Saturday, I told him, I don’t want this to be a friends with benefits situation because I wanted to give him a way out if that is what he wanted and he assured me that once this stay at home order is over, he wants to take me on dates. He mentioned that everything is between us is great from our chemistry and conversation. I think part of me is afraid and overthinks a lot because my ex literally lied about everything and I’m trying my hardest not to think he is just lying and trying to play me. I am wondering if maybe its just this quarantine thing and just let him show his true self once this quarantine is over. Any advice here?
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