I’ve been trying online dating for more than a year now, mostly because I work in an all female work environment, and went to school full time. Don’t really have any friends and I don’t go out often..plus I’m just a different type of breed I guess and I’m not into hooking up or one night stands so meeting a guy at a club or bar..is just dumb to me, Cause there is a big insinuation of the one night stand thing. Been there haven’t done it and just feel stupid that I even gave the guy my attention when it was so obvious all they wanted was to fuck. So I’ve only been on four dates with one guy this whole online dating time and though I thought it was going well and we would be cool as a couple even if short term..I got ghosted. 🙁 quarantine or not they could have at least sent me a text. I was doing all the work texting and as I suspected they haven’t texted me since I stopped.
Well it seems online dating has been a serious issue for me where I attract guys with an air of desperation and mental instability. Even before quarantine. Just now I was talking to a guy who seemed cool so we exchanged numbers. They Tell me they want to watch a movie together 3 days into exchanging numbers and me thinking that due to the times that meant FaceTime..nope he wanted my address. I told him no several times and he kept trying to convince me he did not have the virus in which I replied he should be concerned about his health as well and two I would never have let him come over on a first meeting virus or not. He kept pushing the issue and I eventually told him he was being rude and he said something rude along the lines of FaceTime is like window shopping..wtf?!! He than apologized. I said it was ok and didn’t text back he has since sent me five more messages and tried to FaceTime me twice. He’s for sure doing that thing where he is trying to make me feel sorry for him because he said I can understand if you never text me again….than he tried face timing me again. Keep in mind I haven’t even looked at his messages cause I was honestly studying for my master exam…I’m dying on the inside because it seems like I’ve been dodging major bullets since this quarantine started. But also sad that I’m just going to be single forever and have lost all my trust in online dating and guys in general. This isn’t the first guy to do this but for sure the first guy to be so obnoxious about it. I was talking to about 4 guys during this quarantine and they have all pulled something similar..one even told me that they were in the DOD and their name and age were actually not true and their trying to hide their identity so that no one steal their information…once again wtf!!!! All this because I had asked him if he wanted to do a face time date than he said he needed to be honest. I mean thank god I’ve never actually meet these guys cause I feel like I would have been put into a awkward and or dangerous situation by now.
Is it just me having by these experiences? Is this quarantine driving some guys insane? Or am just matching up with Desperate guys?
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