So I started talking to this guy (20m) right before Quarantine, we met on Hinge. We didn't get a chance to meet in person before lockdown. From the very beginning, we hit it right off. We have a lot in common and conversation flowed so naturally between us. We continued to talk 4-7x a week for several weeks.
A couple times throughout quarantine we'd go a longer-than-usual amount of time without talking (a week or more) and I would hit him up with a funny meme or something and we'd get right back to it. Everytime we would go on these random cold spells w/o talking I didn't think much of it (again, we haven't met) and I didn't have a problem being the one reinitiating conversation. But then one time I was like, hm, if we went on a cold spell again how long would it be before he initiated the conversation w me first? Then we went like 2.5 weeks without talking. I eventually was like, screw it, and started a convo again with him and it was totally normal.
Well…. I just found out through Reddit that he's been posting about his GIRLFRIEND…. And asking for advice about all these super specific situations that have been recently taking place with him and his gf. I just feel really embarrassed. Sometimes I wonder if I get emotionally attached too quickly? Were there signs I should've read deeper into? Am I overreacting? Just hearing any responses about this situation would help me out. I'm feeling disappointed to have found this out, and I plan to just cut off contact from this point onward.
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