It's as though everyone is too apathetic (or self involved?) to actually put effort into getting to know each other. Maybe our attention spans are too short? I get a strong impression that the activity of courting someone and searching for a partner isn't considered a high priority in my generation. It often leaves me with this painful feeling that there's something repulsive about me that I can't see in myself and keeps women from actually getting closer to me.
I'm not posting this for pity. I just want to know if everyone else finds it extraordinarily difficult to meet and connect with others?
To put things in perspective: I'm a 30 year old male. From what I gather through experiences and honest feedback, I can confidently say I'm above average looking and have a personality that people are drawn to. So I wonder all the time: what makes it so difficult to find someone to take an interest in me for longer than a date or two?
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