hi reddit, i feel like i don’t really have anyone to talk to about this subject, so i’m coming here. i’m a 17 year old girl and i’ve never really been in a serious relationship or had much of a romantic life. it’s just hard because i was shy growing up and i don’t really click with many people who live near me. anyways, i downloaded an app where you can meet other people and add them on snapchat during quarantine because i was bored out of my mind and wanted to talk to more people. i added this guy and i feel like we instantly had a connection. he was really really nice to me and we talked about pretty deep things like family and passions and our futures, we facetimed a few times and talked and i really really started to like him. i’m such a daydreamer and i started to fantasize about meeting him and like being with him and just you know how it is. we’re really similar in sense of passions and morals and humor and stuff like that. he’s also extremely charismatic which makes it really hard. i think i want someone like him so badly but i’ve never had that sort of connection with anyone, so he’s pretty much consumed my thoughts. we only talked for two or three weeks, then he just started not replying to me and became uninterested which i kind of understand because we really can’t take anything much farther since we live in different sides of our state (northern california and southern california). even though it really kind of hurt. i probably sound so stupid and crazy but it’s just a really weird situation and i need some advice on how to get over it and stop thinking about him. i know it’s probably just because of quarantine and that i haven’t had a relationship or anything but it’s just driving me nuts haha. there’s a possibility we could meet up and hangout if i ever go down to where he is but also that’s kind of scary to me and i don’t know if it would actually happen. if anyone has advice for me please let me know.
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