So it all started in May 2019 we matched on tinder i had come to California in jan of 2019 to travel and she was completing her undergrad in cali. I came back to my home country and we started talking i couldn’t get to meet her in person but we talked and flirted with each other through text after two months of talking i asked her if she’d date me when i come to US and she replied with “We can be friends for now” and i respected her decision. The same flirting and texting continued till October 2019 and then we stopped talking till Jan she was busy with her finals and school and i was busy with my work, application etc . I landed in East side of US in jan 2020 for my masters texted her that i am in US she replied and we started texting and talking everything is going great but recently we had a small argument when later she said “i don’t want to fight you are a really good friend and i like you a-lot” i said to her “ i like you a-lot too but i want to know are we ever going to be more then friends” to which she replied “i have no problem with it being more then friends someday but now i am not ready for a relationship” i was fine with it at that moment but deep down i wasn’t.
We still talk and care about each other but i don’t know exactly what she meant when she said “i have no problem with it being more then friends someday but now i am not ready for a relationship”.
Should i tell her that i have feelings for her and ask her if she has the same for me
I am not the type of guy to date multiple woman its just not my thing. But guys i just need your help in what i should do im confused.
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