I’m honestly pretty butthurt right now. I feel weird to even make this post, but fuck it.
Girls, if you’re gonna approach a guy, ask him things to get to know him, and make plans to hang out with him, please just slip into the conversation at any point before that time that you are unavailable.
I know a lot of girls are just friendly. Shit, I’m friendly too, but every so often there’s somebody that I’m a little friendlier towards. And if that person seems to reciprocate the feelings, I’m gonna get pretty excited about seeing that person.
The key word is “seems”, everybody acts differently so you never really know if somebody is as into you as you are in them. You also should never get your hopes up about a person because then you fall in love with a fantasy and not them.
But if you’re going to get to the point where the two of you are going to hang out, each person should have an idea of the other’s intentions. I’m not against being friends with a girl at all, I love having female friends. But a friendship that seems to build itself very closely resembles love, and that shit needs to be distinguished as soon as possible.
I know nobody owes anyone any information, but this specific information means the difference between staying friends with somebody and having them be over talking to you completely. It’s not exactly leading somebody on, but the person in the dark might not know that before it’s too late.
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