I 27F am a kind and genuine person. I have attracted guys but they always lie to me go on several dates just to sleep with me and ghost me, treat me like a fuck buddy even though they will have serious relationships with other girls. I'm just the one they call in between relationships. I have tried everything. Ive tried the apps and made it clear I didnt want a hookup..the guys storm out of the date at the end when I say I wont go home with them, Ive tried building a romantic relationship with someone i'm friends with…they still end up using me, Ive tried not sleeping with anyone for years, still doesnt work out to find a relationship. I work on myself and do everything right. I was never desperate for a relationship when I was younger but now I just feel like no one will ever want me, value or love me. Those who have said they had feelings for me will leave me for a better option, their ex, etc. I always feel like 2nd place.
Guys who say "I cant believe you have never had a boyfriend, why haven't you met a nice man yet?" are the same guys who treat me like this. They see me as a dating option for someone else but for some reason not for them?
All i want is a partner to share my life with and a chance to be happy. I dont know what I am doing wrong. Everyone I know is settling down with a partner and I feel like no one will give me a chance.
Im sorry for the long vent I just need to know what I can change and don't know whats wrong with me.
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