I see a lot of posts like this:
"I am dating a really nice person but he got cold… even though everything was fine." A normal rejection sucks in general. But who had us convinced they were our perfect soul mate sucks 10x more. It is the fact they sell you a dream and we are constantly trying it to get back.
The reason why they act in this way is their attachment style. They are either fearful or dismissive avoidant.
This is important: https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/compassion-matters/201307/how-your-attachment-style-impacts-your-relationship
You will find your ex or your date somewhere in one of them and everything will make sense. It says a lot about how the relationship will be and how the ending will go too. It is a shame so many people do not know about this.
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