I(21f) dont have a hard time attracting men but once they are interested in me, they immediately ruin it by being overly sexual and disrespectful. I’ve only slept with one guy so im not the type of girl who does hookups and makes out on a first date. Often times I download dumb dating apps like tinder and bumble when im lonely but then once they start talking to me they are either dry af or super creepy and texting me nonstop. Ive been on two dates since I moved and one of them was very controlling and I felt like I was almost sexually assaulted. He kept touching my thigh or my back or trying to get closer when I kept telling him no. My ex of 2 years cheated on me nonstop. My older brother cheated on his girlfriend nonstop. My dad even cheated on my mom numerous times while they were married. I know there are good men out there who actually love their wives and are faithful and mature because ive seen them with my friends. But I have never had a man treat me right. There will never be a perfect husband but can I have one that atleast respects me? I know im young and I have a long time to find a man who will be good to me but Im starting to think maybe im just not worthy of it.
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